🌸 Parenting Tip from the Sunnah 🌸

Our beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:

"No father gives his child anything better than good manners."
(At-Tirmidhi)

As parents, our greatest legacy is not the wealth we leave behind but the character we build in our children. Let’s strive to teach kindness, patience, and gratitude, nurturing their hearts with the light of deen. 🌿

Remember, every effort you make is an act of ibadah. 💕

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Honour The 'Ulama 📜

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Our duties as a "Parent" start from much beginning than we think!

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🌸 The Forgotten Sacrifices of a Mother 🌸

رب ارحمهما كما ربياني صغيرا 🤲🏻

A mother’s journey is one of silent sacrifices and boundless love. She gives up her dreams, endures sleepless nights, and whispers countless prayers—all for us. 💖✨
Yet, as we grow, we forget. Her quiet sacrifices fade into the chaos of our lives. And when we become parents, we face the same struggles but forget she once stood where we are now. 🌿🌙

She asks for nothing, yet her heart overflows with prayers for us. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, "Your mother, your mother, your mother, then your father." Let’s honor her before it’s too late—hold her hand, thank her, and love her deeply. ❤️

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May Allaah Bless our mothers and Grant us wisdom to cherish them. Ameen. 🌟✨

Broken hearts ❤️‍🩹

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Mugheeth was married to Bareerah while they were both slaves. Immediately Bareerah got her freedom, she revoked the marriage and even the Prophet pleading on behalf of Mugheeth did not change her mind. Mugheeth, may Allah be pleased with him, wept.

He wasn't just weeping, he would walk behind Bareerah with tears screaming down his beards seeking the love of one has none for him. The Prophet was also astonished and said to Abbas :

ألَا تَعْجَبْ مِنْ حُبِّ مُغيثٍ بَرِيرَةً ، ومِنْ بُغْضِ بَرِيرَةَ مُغِيثًا
Amazing is Mugheeth's love for Bareerah and her disinterest in him !

1. What this honored Sahabi is experiencing is an heartbreak; "A broken heart is a metaphor for the intense pain or emotional stress that someone feels after a great loss or deep longing. It's often used to describe the pain of unrequited or lost love"

It goes beyond a metaphor at times and can become a real medical problem , which is called the "broken heart syndrome"
Piety does not mean you cannot suffer emotionally. Piety does not prevent heartbreak.

2. If crying for love were prohibited, the Prophet would have stopped Mugheeth. There's nothing wrong in crying for love. Just understand your culture and know where and when to cry.

3. Nobody wants to suffer heartbreak, to mitigate this :

a. Avoid crushing on people that can possibly marry you, but marriage between the two of you is impossible.

Let me explain a bit: if you crush on a TV star , you yourself know it's impossible to marry him or her, it's not much of a pain.

But if you crush on your teacher, it is very possible you marry him or her , but impossible because of certain other reasons. It may hit you hard and bad when s/he marries.

b. Avoid marriage with people you yourself saw the red flags but continued to lie to yourself that it will work out. It may in some possible world. It doesn't in this world. Better to allow your emotions die outside marriage than suffer heart demolition in marriage.

c. Give preference to character over looks and wealth. I didn't say you shouldn't consider these, I am saying character is more important.

d. Love responsibly. No human being is worthy of unconditional love. The only being worthy of that is your Creator and He does not break hearts. All else, even your favorite celebrity Shaykh, can cause you severe emotional harm.

e. Keep healthy relationships with friends, family and your religious community. Marriage does not mean severing the ties of kinship nor the bonds of friendship. Be wary of those who request your love at the expense of your love for others.

4. If and When the heartbreak occurs:

a. It is Qadar. This always mitigate our loss.

b. If crying will bring the person back, cry him or her a river. If it will not , cry in the privacy of your home. It is not wrong to cry publicly in an environment that is sane, but a lot of environments today are insane.

c. Reconnect with loved ones. Connect or reconnet with community. Spend time on your hobby. Avoid too much thinking about your loss. Have hope that another will come.

d. Avoid going into a relationship immediately. Give it time. Rebounds are usually recipes for further heartbreaks.

e. Speak to someone you trust ,who will understand you. You must TRUST him or her , and MUST have at least the feeling that s/he can understand your pain. If one of this is missing, speaking to yourself is better.

d. Patience. For all pains are limited by time.

May Allaah SubhaanaHu wa Ta'ala Heal you.

The Greatest Bounty Upon the Slave | Shaykh Abdurrazzaq al-Badr حفظه الله

Have we thanked Allaah ﷻ for such gifts lately?

Have we thanked such precious people?

🌟 Let’s make today about strengthening those ties bi'iznillaah!

💌A simple thank you, a heartfelt I appreciate you, or even just a warm smile can brighten someone’s day.

Stay connected, stay grateful, and may your bonds always stay blessed! 🤍✨

#Gratitude #SpreadLove

Sheikh Albāni رحمه الله said: "From the blessing of knowledge is to refer a quote back to the one who originally said it."

‌‏● {Jilbāb ul-Mar'atil-Muslimah, p. 223}

Five before Five

Sh AbdulSalam Al Suhaymi
‎حَفِظَهُ اللّهُ

Temporary Pleasures vs True Happiness

Imām Ibn al-Qayyim said:

‎“O people who take pleasure in a life that will vanish, falling in love with a faded shadow is sheer stupidity!”

Purification of the Soul [Pg. 147].

Reflection:

❖ In Islām, the concepts of pleasure and happiness are distinctly different, yet interconnected.

❖ Pleasure often refers to temporary sensory experiences that may bring immediate gratification, such as indulgence in food, entertainment, or material possessions.

❖ Happiness in Islām is deeper and more profound, rooted in spiritual fulfillment and the contentment that comes from a relationship with Allāh.

❖ True happiness is achieved through worship and obedience to Allāh, as it aligns with the soul’s purpose and leads to inner peace.

Action plan

❖ Prioritise pleasing Allāh over personal pleasure.

❖ Read the following supplication:

اللهُمَّ اجْعَلْ حُبَّكَ أَحَبَّ الْأَشْيَاءِ إِلَيَّ

“O Allāh, make your love the most beloved of things to me."

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"To the mothers who might think that by giving the most of their lives to the Righteous Tarbiyah of their children, they are losing out on doing good deeds"

أبشري

In the scale of the parents' good deeds.

Shaykh Al-Albani رحمه الله said:

Every righteous deed done by a righteous child, its reward and recompense reach the parents of this righteous child.
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Fataawaa Ash-Shareet (83)
| Trans: AbuJuwayriya

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