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Forwarded from Proudly Pointless (Argarath ACAB πŸ‡§πŸ‡· β„οΈπŸ†)
Forwarded from Proudly Pointless (Clair πŸ’œ)
I've had a few friends come to me with doubts over whether they're "really" trans. They asked if I ever had that doubt.
I had to think about it. I'm pretty sure I used to.
But at some point, I stopped. I think it's because I realized it doesn't particularly matter if I'm "really" trans. I want to go by Clair, my chosen name; I want to take my hormones; I want to do things to be seen as a woman. That's what mattered-- that's what my transition looked like, and whether I was "really trans" or not, I was doing it. Not to prove or manifest some pure, abstract ideal of an identity, but simply because they were things I wanted to do.
Trans stopped being something I was, and became something I did, and still do, every day.
And it doesn't have to be in all these big ways. Maybe you're in the closet. Maybe only a couple people in your life know. Maybe nobody knows, but you dream of a life where you're a different kind of person. Guess what? That's being trans, too. You're doing it. Just by wanting it, you're doing it.
If you can't trust your identity, then try trusting your actions.
Hope this helps :3
Forwarded from Oddly Motivational
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2025/01/07 05:48:14
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