Ruang Aksara

I always wonder why most people when they have conflicts with other people they tend to run away from it and avoiding to confront that conflict?

Conflicts can not be resolved by running from it or worse sweeping it under carpet. No, it can’t go away like that, my dear. Eventually you will make it worse and bigger problem in future.

Maybe they are afraid they might hurt other person or to be hurt. I guess. But in order to resolve the conflicts. Must. Confront. That person. No other way round.

Only the bravest and courageous could do that. But most of us are not. Heh.

“Our greatest human endowment is the ability to reframe and reinterpret a difficult circumstance in a more enlightened and empowering way. Dogs cannot do this. Cats cannot do this. Monkeys cannot do this. This gift belongs only to us and is part of what makes us human. Blaming our circumstances for the way we feel is nothing more than excusing ourselves.

In handling any problem, we must have the courage to assume a measure of responsibility for what ever situation we are in and then realise that we also have the capacity to use to set back to our advantage.Life greatest setbacks always reveal life’s biggest blessings.” - Life Lessons From The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari; Robin Sharma.

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I always wonder why most people when they have conflicts with other people they tend to run away from it and avoiding to confront that conflict?

Conflicts can not be resolved by running from it or worse sweeping it under carpet. No, it can’t go away like that, my dear. Eventually you will make it worse and bigger problem in future.

Maybe they are afraid they might hurt other person or to be hurt. I guess. But in order to resolve the conflicts. Must. Confront. That person. No other way round.

Only the bravest and courageous could do that. But most of us are not. Heh.

“Our greatest human endowment is the ability to reframe and reinterpret a difficult circumstance in a more enlightened and empowering way. Dogs cannot do this. Cats cannot do this. Monkeys cannot do this. This gift belongs only to us and is part of what makes us human. Blaming our circumstances for the way we feel is nothing more than excusing ourselves.

In handling any problem, we must have the courage to assume a measure of responsibility for what ever situation we are in and then realise that we also have the capacity to use to set back to our advantage.Life greatest setbacks always reveal life’s biggest blessings.” - Life Lessons From The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari; Robin Sharma.

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